
ok. i grew up in a competitive family. infact, my nephew just got officially
banned from four square at the mtc for being
"too competitive". made me laugh. my confused kai asked, "how can someone be TOO competitive?"
i have a quirky love for smack talk t-shirts and get giddy excited when abe wears a shirt that says, "thank you for being a gracious loser".
what is wrong with that?
i do constantly remind my boys that smack talk is for t-shirts only, and if abe were to ever win the yearly academic scholar award at the 4th grade graduation program, and got called up to get the award from the principle and, looking at the audience of parents and children, raised his hands high above his head and pumped his fist (if, hypothetically that were to happen) i would need to remind my children that we need to be gracious winners as well.
anyway, point is, i like competition to a degree. over the last few weeks i have thought about it a lot since abe is trying out for a club soccer team and it is competitive! this year, as he is now ten, the competitiveness has really kicked in. he has his final try-out tomorrow. 28 boys for 14 spots. i'm not sure what will happen, i am just praying for a good wind, ya know, whatever is best for abe. all i can say is i am so glad we don't have to compete for fourteen spots in heaven! we can ALL make it if we do our part and that's the plan. we can all make it back. i am a big fan of that plan... what a relief!